Baby steps

It’s been… weirdly calm. *freezes and waits for the sky to crash down* But really after recent fuckery I thankfully have had a period of calm, especially this weekend which was full of slacking and wonderful predictability.  Things are not totally settled at the apartment because I’m still kind of cleaning up after the cave-in, […]

How to Revise Expectations

This isn’t actually a How-To so that title’s probably misleading… Hey, I’m teaching you how to revise your expectations already! But seriously revising expectations, especially those you have for yourself, is important. For me this usually amounts to accepting that I’m a failure and moving on with my life secure in that knowledge, but that […]